We thought we’d wrap up blogiversary week with one last post for anyone else writing a blog and/or trying to make a business out of it. We don’t like to think of ourselves as formal blogging experts, but since we always share our learn-as-we-go insights when it comes to home and DIY, we figured it made sense to share what we’ve learned in the past four years of blogging too. Oh and we included pictures of Burger to help illustrate some points along the way. You know, for kicks.
Rule #1: A blog should be born from passion (not a business plan). At least for us, that seemed to work. We write about DIY because we love it, not because we picked it off of a list of “hot topics that might make you money.” Writing about what you truly love makes all of the not-as-fun “maintenance” parts of blogging worth it, and helps make the fun parts that much more fun to do.
Rule #2: Blogging is not a get rich quick thing. Again, at least not in our experience. It’s more like a write-over-2,000-posts-over-four-years-and-make-a-modest-living thing. So in the beginning you might just be sniffing counting pennies, but remember rule #1… you’re doing what you love!
Rule #3: “Success” is an insanely random beast. We have no idea why our little blog grew like it did. There are thousands of amazingly creative blogs out there, so it’s not like we think what we do is terribly unique (see this post). Our best guess is that’s it’s some combination of hard work and a series of lucky breaks (more on that here). Though our geekiness, honesty, and borderline annoying can-do attitude might contribute as well.
Rule #4: Don’t try to be anyone but you. This honestly should be rule #1 because it’s the first and most important (albeit extremely tried and true) tip that we could ever pass along. Mimicking a blog that’s already big won’t get you there, nor will acting snarky if you’re not (or acting not-snarky if you are?). So if you’re not a taco loving chihuahua, don’t try to play one on TV on your blog. It’s much easier to detect phoniness online than you might think, and people will connect with you more strongly if you’re just being good ol’ fashioned you.
Rule #5: Not everyone will love every post/idea. We’re still working on this (hence Goal #4 yesterday) but that old saying “the fastest way to please no one is to try to please everyone” is a famous quote for a reason. There will always be folks asking for more of something while others want less of it. But in the scheme of things, it’s your blog. And blogging (like design) is subjective – so there’s not one “right way” to do it. It definitely helps to accept that opposing opinions are par for the course, then just hold strong to Rule #4 and you’ll be ok.
Rule #6: Blogging is a desk job. As you saw in our pie-chart-tastic post on Tuesday, we spend 80%-ish of our working hours doing something on the computer (writing posts, editing photos, responding to emails, writing columns, answering comments) so even though our subject matter is pretty “active,” projects are probably a smaller part of what we do than most people think.
Rule #7: Blogging’s also a creative after-hours not-desk job too. Which is our favorite part. The fact that painting a room, building a desk, or creating free art is a part of our job rocks our socks off. And that’s a big reason why we keep doing what we’re doing, because we recognize how incredibly fortunate we are to get to make a living doing what we love (which brings us back to Rule #1).
Rule #8: You work harder for yourself than anyone else. We’ve heard this from lots of people who have their own business, and it’s 100% true. The pressure is on when things like buying food and paying the mortgage all depend on your “venture.” And it’s especially hard to unplug when you work from home, since the line between laptop time and family time is blurred (we’re still working on it, hence Goal #1 of yesterday’s post). Just try to get some fresh air every now and then. We come up with some of our best ideas when we’re on a road trip or out walking around the neighborhood.
Rule #9: As your blog grows, the expenses will grow too. Many of our friends are surprised to hear that we have business expenses (hence this post on Tuesday), but between paying for hosting, site support, insurance, business fees, accounting, and quarterly taxes there’s definitely a price to blogging (not to mention all the projects that we take on, which have to be budgeted for as well). So it might help to prepare for that stuff by learning how to stay organized, track your money, and balance a budget. Heck, getting chummy with an accountant or two can’t hurt either.
Rule #10: It’s all worth it! So just relax, have fun, and see where you end up. In spite of some of the hard behind-the-scenes stuff about blogging, one thing is for sure: we love what we do. And we wouldn’t rather be doing anything else. Seriously. Four years ago when we started this whole shebang we never dreamed that we’d end up here. But we did. And for that we’re extremely grateful. So remember to enjoy the ride. Heck, feel free to wag your tail a bit.
Ok, now we want to hear from you guys. To those who blog, we’d love to hear what you’ve learned (I’m sure the lessons are completely different for everyone!). And if you’re not a blogger, we’d love to hear a few things that your current profession has taught you (are we the only nosy folks who find other people’s jobs fascinating?). For example, in advertising I learned to be flexible, not get married to an idea, be passionate, and wing it.
With that, we have reached the end of our big ol’ fourth blogiversary. Thanks so much for celebrating with us!
Update – Some of the most frequent requests that we get are for info about professionally blogging (how we made our site, how we grew our following, how we make money, etc) so we shared all of the details about how we started a blog, grew our traffic, and turned it into a full time job.
Molly P-H says
I’ve found a lot of great blogs through this post, thanks! And The B-Man is looking PRECIOUS as always (that True Value picture just kills me … is he really allowed in hardware stores?!). In 20+ years of political and government work, I’d say these two things have helped the most…
(1) Have a positive, solution-oriented attitude. Even if you (like me) get called “Rainbow Bright” by your boss. Every. Single. Day. :}
(2) Progress, not perfection.
GREAT blog! Love it! Molly in Florida (mph3555 on twitter)
YoungHouseLove says
Yes! Surprisingly Lowe’s and Home Depot and True Value all welcome pups. Love it!
xo,
s
Lyndsey says
That is my favorite photo EVER of burger :)
ournote2self says
Great post! My sister and I started a blog last January. It’s a hobby, not a living… but we love doing it. I remember a lot of people were wondering why we blog if it’s not for any real reason. It’s fun, it’s a great way to vent, and I find there are many other bloggers out there that we can talk to about of favorite topics.
Jen @ Always a Project says
Happy Blogiversary!
I started a blog in February at the start of our kitchen remodel to share news/pictures with friends, keep motivated, and to kind of have an archive to look back to (I love before and after pictures!)
Some things I’m still trying to work on are: remembering to document projects as they happen (and not getting so wrapped up in the project that I forget!) and posting consistently (which kind of slips by when I get wrapped up in my regular 9–5).
Between projects at home and projects at work (as a textbook editor) I’ve learned that some things don’t work out exactly as you envision them, and that’s ok. You just kind of have to let some things be, give yourself a break, and move on to the next thing.
Chris Froberg says
Great entry – thanks for the “behind the scenes” look at what it takes to run a blog. I am a huge fan of yours – thanks to you I just saved $800 (WOO HOO) from making my own curtains. A big thanks to Sherry and her DIY curtain lesson. I have a large living room that has 5 windows so it saved me TONS to make my own. :)
Marie @ Sally Lee by the Sea says
I think you hit the nail on the head with all of your tips. My biggest lesson in blogging was learning that I can’t please everyone. It is a ton of work to run a blog but worth the effort. Thanks for this wonderful article and happy anniversary to you!
Dru says
Seeing Burger with the taco and the sombrero made me want taco bell!! :) Totally reading the “who is this burger you speak of” imagining my uncles thick english accent! :)
Amanda says
My question is how do you know where you can and cannot take Burger? It seems he’s always in a Home Improvement store cart. Maybe it’s just my local area, but it seems no one is pet friendly!
YoungHouseLove says
We just look around for other dogs and then if we see one we ask the folks at the register or in the store “hey, are dogs allowed? that’s awesome!” – they usually say “oh yeah, bring them on in – as long as they’re on a leash or in the cart.” That seems to be the policy at Lowe’s, Home Depot, and True Value!
xo,
s
Corsage @ A Dollop Of Me says
I’m so inspired by you guys. Esp the whole working together as a couple bit!
I started a blog as a personal diary years ago and it has evolved and grown to something quite different today. It is my happy place to be at and the people/connections I’ve made have been nothing short of amazing!
Thank God for the Internet :)
Tom says
Great post, keep ’em coming!
elle C. says
I’ve learned in this first year of blogging, that yes, it is VERY important to be yourself, but it’s also valuable to learn from how other bloggers write. You have to be both humble AND confident in your art, and since blogging is a relatively new form of expression, supporting your fellow bloggers while learning from them is so beneficial.
YoungHouseLove says
Amen! We’re all about the lovefest. The fact that design blogging is a community (heck, it’s kind of like a family) is amaaaazing and so inspiring!
xo,
s
Calli says
I love, love, love #1 – it’s so true that you need to blog from the heart.
Blogging really is a ton of work – I’ve read it a million times but didn’t believe it until I tried for myself. I always tell myself that blogging isn’t my job (right now)so if it starts to feel like a job I need to step back and regain that ever important balance.
Love what you’re all doing, can’t wait for the stencil wall reveal!