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Jen says
“To every thing there is a season…”
Take your time. Figure it all out. Just don’t over think it.
I love simple and clean in all facets of life and it would be nice to see it with your posts. Thanks for asking us for feedback and as a reader, I enjoy you sharing throughout the years…All my best!
C says
Come on guys, J&S are completely used to hearing criticism, they’ve been doing this for years. Without feedback and criticism how would they know what to change or what to improve? I’m sure they are very thankful, as everyone probably is here–that people are feeling like they can truly share their honest thoughts right now, whatever their thoughts may be. It’s great to have open dialogue like this. And think of what a huge and valuable reference they’ve accumulated all here in one place…I would love that if I had a blog.
It’s also great that everything I’ve read here in the comments has been so civil…we all know it could have easily devolved into name-calling and tantrums elsewhere on the internet, but it hasn’t. So thumbs up for that, and for everything else I said! I must say, I am impressed J&S!
Lisa says
I agree, and it honestly makes me RAGEY when people use that dumb phrase ‘haters gonna hate’. Since when is constructive criticism hate? They should be grateful for so much feedback and not shrug it off. I doubt thst every critical comment is from a GOMI reader and even there, people don’t hate on the blog but just vent their opinion after mostly having been fans for a long timel
C says
For sure Lisa. And another plus for them–J&S don’t have to worry about page clicks this week after “asking the question.” They’ve generated hundreds of comments, and are actually letting many through that they normally may not have. (This is the first YHL comment thread that I’ve ever commented on.) Great easy way to bring in some big bucks to make up for this week’s only one post. What a nice surprise(?) for them …though I guarantee a test of poise in not responding. ;)
C says
Yes, my posts are part sarcasm, but there is a part of me that hopes J&S will come on here Mon and say yes “we are thankful that people feel like they can truly share their honest thoughts right now whatever those thoughts may be.” Without any excuses, without any snark. And perhaps start being more HONEST in general. What do you think? Hold my breath?
melinda says
MY goodness. My GOODNESS. I think the question was, would you like a short post or would you like us to say, crazy week so no post? we’d love your feedback (on that)
So, my response is, I like short posts, it’s always fun to see what you are up to, or what little bit of entertainment there might be.
Hang in there, kids, and don’t let them get you down. You will think it through and decide what is best for you guys, especially when you listen to your gut. And it will all work out however it’s supposed to work out.
I am sorry there has been such an overwhelming onslaught of criticism, however well intended it has been; I doubt anyone has had to deal with that much critical feedback in their own lives…otherwise I’m sure they might have been a bit kinder in their responses…
Naomi says
I started reading your blog when y’all were in your first home and before your daughter was born. I loved it and would read faithfully. Now I only check in if I remember. I get that you’re a DIY blog, but I felt that completely remodeling and renovating a home and then moving on to the next one seemed very “crass consumer”–especially considering all of the times you’ve talked about conserving resources and BPA in your receipts. Also, it seems to me that y’all are never truly satisfied.
That said, there are a lot of people on here saying that you should do what you want. I absolutely agree, but here’s the thing: like it or not, you’re a business that has built a brand and your readers are your clientele (and, honestly, your bread and butter). It’s like owning a brick and mortar store and wondering why you don’t get any foot traffic when you never restock your shelves and no one knows what your hours are on any given day. As mean as it sounds, your readers pay your bills.
Cee says
I feel guilty adding to the stack of comments, but I’ve gotten the impression that you guys like data, so I would feel remorseful if I didn’t add another point in the column of Your In Depth Renovation Posts Are Amazing.
Signed,
Long time reader/first time commenter/apartment dweller/tremendously appreciative of your work person
Autumn says
While asking for feedback seems to have drawn a few over the top negative remarks, I’m going to chime in on the positive side to say I still love what you’re doing and the way that you share your life with the world. I’d like to see more small posts because they can still have a big impact. When I first started reading your blog over a year ago, I felt inspired by your eclectic style & organized a big shelf in my kitchen to make it more attractive/user friendly. Just that simple (free!) update makes me feel calmer & appreciate the improvement every time I look at it. Chin up & blog on! <3
Cindy E says
Hi,
I rarely read this blog – I am older and my taste in home decor is a bit more evolved. However, I did purchase your book last year for my daughter-in-law – she is young, loves decorating and she is quite good at it.
I noticed many negative comments here. I think what has happened in the last year or so is – people are no longer in the dark about big time bloggers. What may have started as fun, innocent, genuine…well, it begins to be all about the money, the sponsors, blogger networking, book deals, television appearances, on and on and on. Readers start to feel manipulated, readers can’t relate anymore, it all becomes kind of a sham.
I’m not necessarily talking about this blog – this is a general thing.
I think we all are getting burnt out with bloggers/blogs. The money being made is astounding…big bloggers can make several hundred thousand a year – without a book deal. Traffic alone makes a popular blogger big bucks. So yes, readers might get a little negative if the bloggers seems to be taking things for granted. Again, this is big bloggers in general and not aimed a YHL necessarily – just a observation.
Many popular bloggers have completely ‘sold out’ – meaning with all the attention – a kind of celebrity thing going on – big money rolling in…these bloggers feel above the ‘little’ readers…and a reader can easily pick up on that…not good.
A blog that fits this description would be Bleubird.
You have to find a way to just be HONEST with your readers. That is the thing big bloggers seem to have trouble with – they really begin to dislike the readers once they get really popular.
Melissa Summers says
Gross.
Kim says
I think it’s important to note that ‘we’ are not the customers. ‘We’ are the product. J &S get paid for delivering us to retailers. Sure, they need to attract us with something enticing, but the true customers are the retailers paying for ad space or mention.
Rachel says
Yes!!!!!
C says
Spot on, Cindy and Kim.
Micha says
I have never posted a comment on here, but had to post something after reading the comments that have been posted.
I am struggling to understand what everyone’s issue is! It seems to be that the issue is not with the blog but the hateful people reading it. Let me put it to you this way would you continue to watch a tv show that you do not enjoy? or continue to purchase books by an author whose style and format you detest? No! So for all the people who have commented on here and on GOMI it just seems that you continue to read the blog to judge and be downright nasty about people who you do not know, and to be honest that says more about you then the people writing this blog or any other blog.
Lastly for everyone who is saying that this is their job and that they are being lazy. Yes this is how they make a living, but they do not have any obligation to you, only to their advertisers.
The blog has been created for your enjoyment…and if you don’t enjoy it then move on.
So how about you all keep your opinions to yourself unless it is actually comments on how to assist the blog, not just to be horrible to people about how they live their life and their family dynamics.
Linda says
Hi, Micha – do you remember sites like Television Without Pity, which had some great elements – but was mostly people being extraordinarily upset when television shows didn’t match the vision the posters had. Hey, I get it (Scully/Mulder fan here!), but after a while you wonder what part of the psyche is being fed when people keep on watching, or reading, something they loathe.
Or look at any band that hits the big time – it’s a cliche that early fans will start screeching about selling out, watering down, etc etc.
I’m not talking about ‘constructive criticism’, or just honest differences of opinion, but those obsessed folks who’re refreshing the YHL site just so they can run back to their forums and feel like they’re counting coup.
Leisa says
Wow, first off, I cannot believe the sense of entitlement so many people seem to feel. As if it’s their RIGHT to make demands on how you should decorate your home and live your life, just because you get paid (by sponsors) to run your blog.
One of the reasons people choose to run their own business is so they can set their own schedule and parameters to suit their life.
I completely applaud your choice to put Teddy and Clara first, even if it means I miss hearing from you guys.
In all honesty, you could do 20 posts a day and I’d read them.
As for your choices in decor – people must remember this is YOUR home, you have to live there and it should be a place that YOU love. Not filled with “high end” things just to keep readers happy.
The reason I started reading (second house) was because I loved your style, and felt it was similar to my own taste, but also within my budget and capabilities. Especially when you demonstrate how to fix up thrift store pieces or DIY a light fixture etc.
In response to your actual question:
I have been enjoying the meaty posts and laundry room reno, and am sure I will find them helpful to reference when we start renovating our home next year. I realise that these type of posts come with the flow of where you are at in your renovations (less technical decor posts will come once you have finished the bones of the room).
But I do feel the light-heartedness which I love about your blog has gotten a bit lost. I enjoy the small posts like Clara conversations, organising and crafty projects, mood boards for your thoughts on future rooms, house crashing, window shopping etc etc, and mostly I enjoy your humour.
So I would be happy to see some of these come back into the mix with your more juicy posts.
Sorry for the novel :) Keep doing what you do!
Kate says
I’ve been reading your blog since the first house and before the name change, so count me in as a long-time fan! :) I didn’t agree with every design choice you made (and who could agree with anyone 100% of the time since we all have our own personal taste!) but I loved your blog. I liked the combination of DIY, decorating, small projects, eco-friendly and money saving tips, your personality, etc. I think there was a good variety of posts. You seemed like a young, hard-working couple who I could relate to easily so I was very happy for you for all your success (the books, the product lines, etc). Couldn’t happen for better people!
But somewhere during your second house I started to feel like you weren’t into DIY, decorating and blogging as much as you used to be and the blog started to suffer (possibly because of spreading yourselves too thin with the side projects?). When you revealed that you had bought your third house and that you were working on the show house I felt optimistic that you would find your spark again with the new opportunities and it would be reflected on the blog. But unfortunately things haven’t improved at all. It seems like you don’t enjoy the DIY stuff or blogging that much anymore, and when you decorate a space you don’t seem to have a clear plan for the room so it doesn’t really “come together” at the end. I understand that you might not want to (or need to) work so hard after all these years of blogging but so much of your work comes off as half-assed these days (like the wall tile in the laundry room or not planning extra blog posts just in case something falls through). It seems like your hearts are not in it anymore and you are just going through the motions of blogging and DIY/decorating and that’s a shame. It doesn’t serve you or the readers who have been supporting you for years.
I think that the reason so many people seem disappointed and even angry in the comments is that you have the potential and you have the resources (you have a lovely house and enough time, money, experience, etc to decorate and DIY it properly and so many possible topics for blog posts) but it seems like you are not interested in using them. I don’t mind you guys posting 4 times a week if that is the pace that works best for your family, but as a reader I do expect a more thought-out posting schedule and a variety of posts with better content. It’s great that you are working on the laundry room but you should have made a posting schedule where you break up the many laundry room posts more with other posts (like small projects, tips, writing about trends and doing mood boards, reader questions or reader redesigns, even window shopping or little bit of lifestyle stuff about your family) so there is a good variety. There are so many ideas for interesting shorter “filler posts” you could do – you could do a post about what makes a good kids room and ask other bloggers/friends/readers their tips and ideas for decorating a kids room that is both functional and pretty and post pictures of a couple of those rooms.
I think that better planning of projects and blog posts (don’t you guys have that editorial calendar on the office wall where you can plan out your up-coming blog posts? I thought that it was a great idea but it seems like maybe you are not using it?) would go a long way of keeping your readers happy. Maybe thinking about the balance between the blog and the side projects would be useful too? Maybe your interest lies more with the side projects these days and that’s perfectly fine. But if that is the case I would be more upfront about it on the blog and tell the readers that the blog is the side project from now on and the books and the product lines are you full time job. Because now it often seems like you are busy and overwhelmed but as a reader it is difficult to understand why because what we see on the blog these days can’t take up that much time or energy.
Sorry about the long comment and I’m sorry if I come across as rude because that wasn’t my intention at all. Like I said I’ve been reading your blog since the beginning and I’m (still) a fan. It is just harder to relate to you guys these days as a reader. Not because of the fame and success (I think that most of your readers are really happy for you and the disappointment doesn’t come from jealousy but from honestly being disappointed in the content and vibe of the blog lately) but because it is hard to imagine why you wouldn’t want to take more pride in your work – or why you don’t end the blog and move onto other things if your heart is not in blogging and DIY/decorating anymore. Obviously your readers would miss you but I’m certain that we would rather you be happy and doing something else than unhappy and blogging half-heartedly.
Rebecca says
Hi from Australia John and Sherry.
I love reading your site and would really enjoy up to once a week a throwback article. This is your third house, there is a lot of great stuff from the past so bring back an oldie but a goodie.
Not everyone has been reading your blog for seven years and even if they have a resurfaced post would be good.
Laura says
Hi john and sherry. I very rarely post here but just wanted to add my thoughts to it.
Firstly I know it must be quite hard to receive so many comments but I hope you take the time tj read them, rather than responding with a knee jerk reply. Sometimes, your responses tend to err on the side of defensive/almost snarky. And I think that is partly what your readers object to. At the end of the day, we are he people giving you your money to work a two day week. Our page clicks fund your lifestyle so when you come out on the defensive it can be a little irritating.
I’ve enjoyed you blog for a long time. You have me the confidence to try new things out, to decorate on a budget, to at least give DIY a bash. But as so many people have said, my DIY skills have gone on to improve and yours don’t seem to be improving. Your blog was the first blog I ever read and it gave me the confidence to just go for it. But I feel that at the same time I went for it, you stopped.
You don’t seem to enjoy it any more. Your spark has gone. Maybe it’s time to rethink things. I don’t think the blog needs to stop but I do think you guys need to have a serious think. We don’t have the right to tell you how to live your life or your business but if you invite comments you should at least respect the time people have given to comment ( not to mention the fact that this whole comment storm has probably earned you a forine this weekend for little work!) It seems that you hate what you’re doing and you constantly bitch and moan about everything. Yes player board is heavy, yes mudding isn’t fun. But you know what, it’s your job. There are many aspects of my job that aren’t fun. I earn a damn sight less than you. I have to levee my child to go to work. I actually have to work a full working week. And after all that, I come home, spend some time with my child, do my study for my doctorate and then, after all that, do my household DIY. And I don’t get paid for it. This is your job, I don’t quite understand how you think it’s good business sense to work around your child’s nap time. I get wanting to spend time with uour kids and I get leaving the work force to spend more time with your kids, but you’re still meant to work.
I think the frequency of posts is less of a problem if the content is good. You wont please everyone, nor do I think you should have to, however at the minute if you don’t want step by excruciating step details of how to do the laundry room there isn’t much motivation to click over. I don’t think the content needs to be those meaty posts in such great detail but there does need to be some quality content. And that doesn’t have to be meaty DIY. While I don’t want it to be filled with your kids or your life or various filler things, once in a whole mixing it up wouldn’t hurt. Things like your colour 101 were really useful. Reader redesign whilst not my cup of tea are interesting if once in a while. I think you need to mix it up to keep people on their toes. I feel sometimes you find balance hard. You slowed down which I supported, but did no DIY or craft stuff so just filled the blog with your kids. We asked to see less of them so we don’t see anything of them. And at the same time you stopped discussing anything non DIY related. Your blog did well because it’s relatable but we have nothing to relate to now. Over than minute detail about laying tile.
This is your business. How can you not plan or organise. How can you not stockpile posts. How can you find time to drive to ikea for cabinets you could have got elsewhere but not write a crappy little post about something.
I suppose in summary listen to peoples comments and don’t respond in a defensive way. Don’t fob the comments off as internet haters, I think most people like me want you to stray around but improve. And mix it up. And maybe for once seem a little more grateful for a work/family situation most would kill for.
Melanie says
Wow! So many comments! I totally miss your posts just on styling. You know, one table, three ways. Sherry has such an eye for creating great vignettes. I loved that in your first house I knew exactly where everything you acquired came from (and hope that doesn’t sound creepy). But I liked that I knew around the time when you bought something so that I could replicate the look if it was at a store near me also (like Target or HomeGoods) or to keep an eye out for something similar (like at a flash sale or 2nd hand shop). I’ve also enjoyed the organizing posts. I heart you guys and know you’ll be successful no matter where all this feedback leads you. I do miss you though!
Bec says
Hi
I tried to post this yesterday but the server timed out on me so I’m going to try again.
First I want to say that I’ve been reading here for a long time and what originally drew me in were your personalities and the freshness of your writing. I started reading a number of DIY blogs at that time as a new home buyer and yours was the only one I felt like I really connected with in that you were like me – learning how to tackle the ‘big’ jobs as you went and laughing at yourself and your trials. Since Book 1 / the book tour / show house however it feels like that joy has gone out of this site. I still read regularly, but it’s no longer my must-read-while-I-wind-down-from-a-day-at-work. Reading it, it comes across that this blog is no longer your main priority and, I was amazed at the lack of time management that has shone through this year – it’s been really disrespectful of those of us who got you here, to borrow one of your favourite phrases.
I understand totally that having been doing this as long as you have can be draining – I’ve been teaching for 14 years and sometimes the constant grind of planning, preparation, teaching, marking, assessing, evaluating and reporting totally gets me down and from time to time I’ll teach a “light week” of lessons and that’s where your “filler” posts should come in, rather than posting nothing at all if you intend to keep the blog going on such a regular schedule.
Also there were lots of little posts (mainly Sherry ones) that seem to have disappeared in the last 12-18mo. I know that you guys value the interactions with the readers in the comments, but sometimes I wonder at what real value a ‘haha so funny/true/hilarious xo s’ really adds to the site. I’m sure we’d all value a short post instead – remember the goal you guys keep setting of working harder, not smarter? And yes, I understand that comment moderation is probably easier to do while breast feeding than writing a post.
Finally, thinking about my comment above about my work getting me down, my one true remedy is to take off for a while, forget about work and recharge my batteries. Last year I was feeling beyond exhausted with a VERY large workload, so I went to Phoenix, the Grand Canyon and San Francisco and even with a 14hr international flight (I’m in Australia) at each end, I came home ready to tackle the final term of a very busy year. May I suggest putting a “Gone Fishing” sign on the blog for a week or two while you go away figure out what you really want to do with yourselves and the blog?
Best of luck!
Emma says
I think this is the best advice yet Bec. Take some time to regroup and recharge. Get a ‘Gone Fishing’ sign. I realize this sounds absurd given the avalanche of complaints you just got for missing just one post but if you need a break then just take one. All the best YHL.
EmJay says
Sherry and John,
I am really hurt on your behalf at the number of people who think your posting is unacceptable as it is both of your full time jobs.
I think a post where you show how many hours per week each of you work may help these people understand. I know you did something similar before, but it may be a good reminder.
I sincerely expect that with the blog, pictures, writing, editing, answering posts, book, other projects, running your business etc. you are working far more than 80 hours per week combined.
Lisa says
Oh please. As if you had the insight into their workload and everyone else who doubts them was an idiot. Also, everyone who is so super super sad for them etc in my opinion should really look at themselves and ask themselves whether they maybe take things a bit too far in the fangirl department. John and Sherry are not your friends. They never will be. They got a book deal, they had a hook line at Target, they’ve run one of the most famous and successful blogs on the internet for several years now. I think they can handle some criticism and also they should be grateful for FREE HONEST feedback. Most of the comments are not malicious. No one attacked them personally as in insulting their intelligence or looks or parenting or whatever, as far as I can see. Sure, I do not know how many comments they did not let through, but I am pretty sure they would not have accepted comments they see as completely inappropriate.
Again, this is their livelihood, this blog feeds their family and could continue to do so if they worked a little bit smarter. This is what most critical comments seem to mention and this is not something that should give YOU of all people the sads. I personally really WANT them to improve this blog once again, I want them to write better content, I want them to succeed, not to stop blogging. And I think most commenters here want the same.
Melissa Summers says
They’ve done those posts before.
Catherine says
Hey I do always skip over fad feebies but would LOVE little organization tips, a day in a life, what you pack in clara lunch, just little post would be great! Also you haven’t done a Q&A in a while …. just wondering if that might be possible.
Love you guys so much you do a great job ( you also have another book to write. Thanks:)
lise lalonde says
Disregard the negativity. Your blog is fine. It reflects your maturity and growth as a family. Of course you are not the breathless free spirits of years ago and your children’s security and rights to privacy take precedence over the readers’ boredom with their own life. I don’t think it is prudent or wise for readers to know your daily schedule, all intimate details of your home life including the exact time and scope of your particular renovations. Ultimately your security is paramount. Whatever you choose to provide as information to your audience is fine by me and please do so at your own pace. Your evolution is far from over. Lise
Jill says
Given my two cents … Agreeing with what looks like the majority – smaller posts, just a quick hello, etc. over nothing at all for sure. Like most, you guys are where I go to first when reading my daily blog round-up!
Mcats says
You want feedback? Here you go!
This posting schedule comes off as lazy, and that is a massive turn off. You write about this blog being your JOB, so please start acting like it. Offer small projects along with big projects. How about more reader submissions? And yes, even contests are fine. Your readers want more content, and as people trying to run a successful BUSINESS you should look into that.
Kathleen says
I’ve been ok with the recent trend- I guess I feel like its great whenever a blogger has time to share but I don’t own their lives, their family does. Also, you’re moving really fast on a huge project, I figured you guys didn’t have time to for the little fun things right now.
However, I do enjoy the little things and the reader redesigns have given me some great ideas- anyone who shares your taste enough to submit something is generally working on my line too. I like the big technical posts too- just pulled up the concrete countertops for my husband to consider.
Boon says
J&S,
First of all, I hope all is well with you and your family. For us curve balls in the week usually involve our kids, church family or extended family. Praying all is worked out with whatever came up.
I have found the technical stuff incredibly helpful. (Mondays are usually my favorite posts because it usually means a weekend worth of excellence to be shared.) We are in ongoing renovations of our home with two small children so we can relate to the crazy.
I respect the fact that your blog reflects life as it is. Seasons of heavy reno should be reflected in your writing. Challenging times juggling projects with a growing family should be reflected both in content and posting frequency. It’s your life and it’s your blog. We are grateful guests along for the ride and it seems unreasonable to expect things to always be as they were. Nothing else in life works that way after all.
I would enjoy little posts if possible though. Especially on ways you approach diy and other projects with two small children in the house. (Safety, noise control, ways they contribute, etc) But if life throws more bad pitches and it just doesn’t happen some weeks we certainly won’t scoff. We will understand and feel better knowing that we aren’t the only ones who have things come up that delay our plans.
Brandy says
Hey John and Sherry,
Coming from a long time reader, someone who bought your book, bought some of the target line, and even drove 2 hours to come to your book signing in Atlanta; I truly want you two to succeed and do well.
However, I find myself clicking over less and less because even though I appreciate all the work that goes into the technical posts, I rent. I file it away for later, but I miss the small posts. And I don’t have children, so I would love small posts that are decor/craft/styling related.
I loved someone’s idea about having a variety of posts throughout the week so we always can click over to see if “our” type of post is up. It seems that is what you two used to do for the first few years I was reading. I’m in the camp of something has felt off for over a year now. And I’m not here to make judgements about what that may be. I wish nothing but the best for you and your family.
I hope all of the negative feedback doesn’t get you down. I’ve dealt with some pretty harsh criticism in my life and while I look back and think I was able to turn it around and do something constructive with it, at the time it was hard.
All the love and best wishes to you two, err five ;)
Elliott says
Thank you for sharing your house-shaped adventures (regardless of size and scope) with us over the years! Your recent creation of a laundry room, made me realize I have the capability of bigger projects that I’ve previously tried AND I’ve also enjoyed small decorating projects.
Thanks again!
P.S. Clara’s worm birthday party is an all time favorite.
Olivia says
I agree with Luke and OBH… ive been reading for a few years and comment fairly seldomly. I love the little posts. LOVE THEM. I skip the hugely technical diy posts.. or just scroll to the bottom to see what it looks like when its done. I completely understood when you decided to take it down a notch when Teddy arrived but I was disappointed because I would get on every morning to read and see what you all were up to. You guys are great and Ill probably read either way ;)
Addison says
I don’t ever comment, but since you are asking I thought I would say a little something. I love you guys, but I have to agree the blog hasn’t been as fun and interesting anymore. This blog used to be my favorite blog and I would brag to everyone about it. I own your book, and I loved when the blog was more personal. I love hearing about y’all, seeing family posts, holiday decorations, table decorations, I guess more small but fun posts. Lately I don’t check the blog as much and maybe scroll once every 2 weeks or so. I know life is busy and I totally understand! Just thought I’d leave my thoughts, and hope you don’t take this the wrong way.
AnnMarie says
The upside to all of this craziness is that we love you guys and always want more more more. I remember you saying awhile back that the blog was your #1 priority and it just doesn’t quite feel like that anymore :( Seems like the book, show house and Target changed that…which is TOTALLY FINE! After all it’s your careers, but just makes me a little sad to see the shift.
Tammy says
I would like to see your “Projects” section of your site updated!
And I like little posts, family posts and long, technical posts – I like variety!
Kayla says
Can of worms opened.
ashley @ sunnysideshlee.com says
I’m not going to lie – there have been times I’ve skimmed your posts but not because I don’t want to read them – but it could be a personal lack of interest in a specific topic. I love the family updates and seeing your home continue to change. You guys have always been amazing at that.
And as Taylor Swift says (yep, I went there) Shake it Off – when it comes to these haters that comment on your business, your post frequency, your family life. You guys don’t owe anyone anything … we all came here because of you and your tips and your personalities and because you guys are rockstars. No one should be in the position to judge how you run your blog or what you do with your time.
Megan says
Hi guys. There’s no such thing as bad press, right? At least you can rest assured your readership is still intact!
Lest everyone forget, before Teddy’s arrival, you informed us of your reduced blogging schedule and received near total support. I think the biggest issue is your priorities have changed professionally, as much or more as they have personally. The blog is no longer at the forefront (and that’s ok). Yes, you will have some say “without the blog you would be nothing” – but the truth is, you are GREAT at what you do and deliver a quality product – success is inevitable. Part of being an entrepreneur, if you’re a good one, is growth. I think your only misstep is not being more direct with your audience. People can sense the shift and acknowledgment is key.
Paul Zak says
we want more, we want more, if you really like something you want more.
http://youtu.be/dK_7NAE-rKE
Michele from IL says
Checking your posts is a highlight of my day. I love them all, from the technical info to the funny comments to the final reveals. Some posts are more interesting to me than others, but that’s just because I may not currently be in need of a tutorial on a certain subject. However, I read it over and note it as one day I might need it as a reference and then I’ll say, “Oh, yah, John & Sherry (my DIY heros!!!!) did that….I’ll look to see how they did it” It’s completely understandable that you’ve scaled back, not just because you have two kids now, but you’ve got a lot of other projects going on and a LIFE to lead outside of your blog. That being said, if you don’t have time for a post that day, I would love to just see a pic of you & the kids….haven’t seen much of Clara lately and would love a post here & there on how she’s relating to being a big sister. I love YHL! :)
AlexS says
As a fellow mom, I found your birth stories (Clara and Teddy) so moving & brave. Although I started reading this blog for DIY ideas when we were rennovating our first house, I (like many others here) have come to love hearing the story of your family and how you guys make your homes your own. As for content ideas, I agree that you are not going to please everyone (not could you) but maybe you could do a quick poll to get a feeling for the majority opinion?
Lindz says
All along I have wondered if you guys would eventually start to steer away from blogging more into the design world and book writing side of things and if you do, awesome! You should feel free to do what works for your family. Keeping internet fans happy is a futile endeavor and I hope you don’t lose any sleep over the negative comments you have received. As far as I’m concerned, your #1 job description is “Clara and Teddy’s Awesome Parents” and I support whatever decision you make in that capacity!
Megan says
I loved this blog for so long and I just really miss it. It’s not just the lighter posting schedule; it really seems that you guys are not into blogging even a little at this point. After 4+ years of daily MUST-READ-YHL-AT-10-EVERY-SINGLE-DAY, I end up skimming the site once a week or so right now. I really, truly hope you find your spark again soon! It’s hard to picture it being the blog at this point but maybe it will be in writing or getting back into working in advertising. No one should have to go to work every day in a job they don’t feel energized by.
Wanda says
I love your blog and wouldn’t change a thing. I used to blog and I know first hand that it’s not easy to keep coming up with new content. I congratulate you on your success and I consider myself lucky to be able to read and peruse through it at my leisure. Unless your readers are asked to pay to read your content, then they should feel the same. I know you asked for feedback, however, some folks sound a bit spoiled/mean to me. Big hug from New Jersey! :)
Gina says
I enjoy all of your posts:) The long ones I don’t always have time to read but will come back later, the short ones are a little pick-me-up b4 I leave for work. So, I would prefer one post (or more) per day but partial posts are better than no posts and as with most of my own home improvements it ALWAYS takes longer than I thought things would. Completely understand you have a home that you are working on and tastes vary. I had an old home with painted white baseboards that looked lighter and brighter but with 6 kids I am lovin’ the next house with stained baseboards that clean easy-breezy without a million curves, corners, and no missing paint chips.
Shari says
I read a lot of decorating/DIY blogs but yours is one of the first I have checked each day since Clara was a baby. Prior to that, I popped in sporadically.
No matter how big or small, my favorite thing to see on blogs is change, progress, before & afters. I was excited to see the change just painting over the blue trim moldings has made in each room of your current house. Although I won’t be doing a laundry room renovation and don’t need to know the technicalities of it, like what size screws to use to hang drywall etc., I’ve nevertheless eagerly anticipated seeing the progress week to week. I love that you apparently love gray (like me) and have used it as your neutral throughout your homes instead of boring blah beige and/or brown. I’m not a fan of curtains in my own home (I’m a plantation shutter lover) but I thoroughly enjoyed your recent Photoshop mock-ups of potential window treatments for the bay window in the office.
At this point in my life (I’m probably in your parents’ age bracket), I don’t need more *stuff* for my only child, a daughter (who’s your age) to have to deal with when I kick the bucket so giveaways rarely interest me. Besides, I couldn’t win if I was the only one entering.
I don’t have any grandchildren so I have loved watching Clara grow up and one of my favorite stories was about her meltdown over the fire at the hibachi grill. I can just visualize that happening…bless her little heart. Always got a chuckle out of Clara Convos and they often reminded me of some of the funny/sweet things my daughter used to say when she was Clara’s age. If you are comfortable sharing, I’m always interested in occasional updates on her and of course, now Teddy.
Wishing nothing but the best to you and your sweet family as you sort this out.
Erika m says
I can’t read through all the comments but I guess here’s my opinion. You were very relatable when you were often “making do” with what you had and saved your pennies. house 2 felt harried, hurried and all over the map and then you took for granted your readers when you kept hidden that you had purchased your third home for 6+ months. Understandable to keep things under wraps for a time, but that was too long…but suddenly the rushed and scattered projects of house2 were blog filler/ money makers and the decisions you are making in house3 ( your forever home) seem shortsighted and ill planned at times- your longtime readers are looking for your “end in sight”, your goals, your dreams and are getting your flavor of the month… I’ve enjoyed your blog at times but am just trying to figure you guys out
Jenny says
I think smaller posts would be better but I also think those might not be the solution. I’ve been a long time reader and I read less and less every week because it’s so boring (sorry). I’ve had the vibe from you both that you’re spent. It reminds me of how I was the months before I left my last job: just going through the motions and getting paid until I move on. I think it’s time to try to reclaim your passion, whether it’s with this website or not. It’s pretty clear to most of us that you’re just not that into it anymore.
Mich says
I am a long time reader (years!), and completely understand the need to post less frequently with all of your obligations. I think the big take away from most of these comments is that your readers miss you! Which is not a bad problem to have. I have noticed that I skim most of your posts lately because they are either long and very technical (which is great for some of your readers! Just not my thing) or they are a giveaway that comes off, to me, like an advertisement. I think what I miss seeing, more than anything, is your creativity! I’m keeping the faith that you will find a balance that works for you soon, and will keep checking until then.
Mary says
I just think it’s a two-way street. You give us content, and we give you page clicks. If you’re not going to come into work, you should give adequate notice just like I would at my job. Definitely should have posted Friday to make up for it. So, yes, I think the obvious answer is to post a reader redesign or anything else than a quick update, unless it was an emergency. Managing expectations is an important part of running a business, and that’s where you’re falling short lately.
Andrea says
Sounds like a lot of people are on the same page, but I’d love to see small projects!! Reader redesigns are always super fun (need more of them!!) and even little projects like painting your adirondak chairs is interesting to read about.
Emily says
I love reading your blog for both the DIY/practical stuff and your style. I really prefer to read small posts rather than no posts. I love to see what kinds of things y’all love that don’t necessarily have a place in your home, like in Reader Redesigns. I think so many of us love watching your family grow as much as we love the DIY. Basically, if you post it, I’ll read it!
bea says
Let me first say that I am downright shocked at some of the comments here – the accusatory ones where people are assuming that you are sitting around doing nothing these days but playing with your kids when this is your full-time job, and their holier-than-thou attitude talking about how they are slaving away at their jobs, while you have this cush little gig making bazillions on the side for doing nothing.
First, no one has the right to assume anything about anyone’s life. Second, yes, this blog is your job, but only a part of it – you have a ton of side projects which I guarantee take a lot more time than people think. And these posts take a lot more time than people think! And further – like another reader said, this blog is FREE – if you don’t like the content and are disappointed, then please move along. I apologize if I sound rude, but somebody had to say it.
I have been reading for a few years, always love to pop in and check things out while I’m having my coffee at work! I have 2 little ones of my own, 4 and 1, and I know how incredibly time-consuming they can be, and how you certainly don’t want to spend time sitting on a laptop when they are desperate for your attention. So props to you for scaling back. I applaud you!
I am still enjoying the posts, even if they are a bit more sporadic. Maybe as things evolve with your family (ex. when Teddy gets into school-age), there will be more posts. Or, maybe the posts will still be a few times a week because you will have other projects on the side! I can’t predict the future, but I will say that I am confident I will keep checking in daily to enjoy that cup of coffee.
Thanks guys for doing what you do. You have a lot of dedicated fans that will continue to support you, no matter which way the blog goes.
Brenda Leners says
I enjoy both the tech and the cutesy posts. It was a bit sad to see you knock a friday off as it really only gives us 3 posts a week as one is the giveaway…which I really hope you keep! However, it would be nice to have a few of the smaller/filler type posts as you say. Hard balance good luck!
KB says
John and Sherry,
I have been reading your blog since your first house, pre-name change, and have never commented but I’m so appalled by the negativity in this thread that I must. I have a 4 yr old daughter, a 1 yr old son, tiny dog, and a 100 yr old house. I work part-time and my husband works full-time. We both work in creative fields, and I’m self-employed. Hence, you guys have always felt perfectly relatable to me. I’ve noticed the change in your life and blog because it has followed the change in my own life. I’ve grown up and gained much more responsibility. That comes with less free-spiritedness and more seriousness. Time and resources are precious in my world and these days creativity doesn’t ooze out of me like it used too because of the demands of tiny children. If I saw you keeping up your old schedule and still being as goofy as you used to be I’d be very suspicious. I’d think you were being fake in your portrayal of yourselves/life or seriously neglecting your children. I whole heartedly applaud your decision to scale back. You need a maternity leave and sick days and vacation. The same things we all want from our jobs. Yes, you would be more productive if you had childcare but if that’s not what you want, don’t! Every parent should be so fortunate to get decide how they want their work/life balance to be. I like all of the different types of posts you do. There’s such variety that over the corse of a month, I always find things that are interesting. The things that aren’t pertinent, I file away for later. And I’ve always appreciated your honest reviews of products and your trial-error posts. Please keep doing exactly what your doing…putting your family first, being your honest selves, and sharing your creativity. Its what makes your blog special.
LisaM says
Wow readers, after all these years of taking, taking, taking – from a source of generous, useful information given freely and costing nothing, you now feel entitled to criticise (under the guise of ‘feedback’); comment on personal choices such as child raising and work/life balance, and then claim they should be doing it all better!! Would you walk into someone else’s home and do this? Or even into a shop or business and do this? If you don’t like it, thank them for their time, and simply leave. Manners and respect cost nothing.
This blog is run by real people and everything has ebbs and flows regardless of whether its a business or not – its called ‘life’.
Thank you for all your hard work YHL and remember, ‘This too shall pass’
Whitney says
Just adding my two cents, which isn’t much! First, I am so glad you are taking time for your family. Those sweet kids take priority!
I haven’t been reading as much as I used to. I started reading your blog a few days before Clara was born and I used to check in after 9 to see what you posted EVERY day, now it might be once or twice a week. There are two reasons for that…
1) I have a 9 month old and don’t have much time of my own- I have NO IDEA how you do it!
2) The posts are longer, more technical (for those I just skim unless it’s relevant to something I am doing- I file it away for later in case I am ever doing something similar.) I miss more posts about shopping, your family (and maybe you are deliberately scaling back since Clara is older/ you are becoming more famous and may want to be leave it out of the blog more), styling, reader features, etc. I love the giveaways, except by the time I check in I miss them. I guess I just miss more of you, but I get that you are busy beyond belief.