This post was 3,000 words long. They all felt overly complicated and heavy and weird. I clicked delete. Then I just typed what we’re really feeling, complete with things we’ve never said out loud and even a few things we’ve never fully admitted to ourselves before.
The truth is that we love you guys. Like for real. Even for the tough love. We know you say it because you care (or hopefully you did at some point), and we want you to know we care right back. We want to do a good job. We want to do this with joy and excitement. We want to inspire you. We know this is an incredible way to have made a living and we are full of gratitude for the experience to have shared the last seven years of our lives with you guys online.
We would NEVER be here without you, and not a day goes by that we don’t know that. It’s why we asked for your feedback last week and read every last comment. We appreciate the honesty and the passion you guys have on the topic of making this blog great. And we agree with a lot of what was being said. We have been feeling off for a while – like we have lost our rhythm and we’re somehow missing the mark for ourselves and for you guys. We too miss the good old days when we did this for the love and were full of such obvious joy and spontaneity. This felt like a place we all hung out and it just doesn’t have that vibe anymore.
Over the years many amazing opportunities popped up for us. Things we never dreamed of doing in a million years, and things we’re incredibly grateful to have had the chance to experience. A book deal, curating paint picks with Benjamin Moore, a line sold at Target, a showhouse, etc. But in hindsight those things also made this feel a lot more like a business than a personal blog to many of you, and to us as well. We have actually ramped those down behind the scenes in an attempt to get back to our roots (we no longer do the BM color collection, the second book is mostly written, our products at Target have completed their run, and we finished the showhouse) but we never really made a big announcement about that – so it’s completely understandable that some of you might think we’ve moved on to those greener pastures and left the blog in the dust, so to speak. The reality is that our site propels the success of any outside project like a product or book, so we could never turn our backs on the blog and expect those items to continue to sell as well.
Not only have we felt this shift from “John and Sherry” to “Young House Love: The Brand”, but the blogosphere as a whole has become increasingly sponsored/corporate lately. We can see from the outside prospective as a reader, or even a fellow blogger, that it’s hard to read a blog post without suspecting some ulterior motive or money-making system behind it. Last week a few of you mentioned that we might need to keep giveaways around because they pay us well, which surprised us since they’re never something we accept payment for (we like to pass free things along to you as a thank you for reading).
Along with the whole business/brand thing that’s going on, and the side gigs that felt like they muddied the water for some of you, there are certainly other things we wish we had handled differently in hindsight. Just to name a few, there’s: being too defensive, over-explaining, letting things get in our heads and change our lighthearted approach, and the internal struggle between being transparent and oversharing personal details like a vacant new house without an alarm system (looking back we wish we’d handled our third house announcement differently). We know many of you felt insulted that we didn’t share more freely about that house, and we truly apologize.
Anyway, back to that whole “we’re sexy stumbling and you know it” thing. It’s endlessly frustrating to do a job that you love poorly, especially when it’s a blog baby that you’ve birthed yourself and nurtured for seven years. And especially when it’s such an amazing job that we once felt so inspired and joyful to wake up and do each day. What’s wrong with us? We know this is a dream job. We acknowledge it’s a once in a lifetime opportunity. We know most people who have built something like this would be more inspired than ever. It’s not that we lost the gratitude, I think it’s that we feel like we’ve fallen out of our groove. We feel like we’re letting you guys down repeatedly. It got to the point that every time we pressed “publish” we braced ourselves.
So in an attempt to stop stumbling around and feeling like we just can’t get it back, we’re taking a break. We don’t know exactly how long we’ll be stepping away, but our guess would be at least a month. We will certainly be exploring other options for supporting our family (something we mentioned we were considering back in April). We had that fiery blog-spark back when we had day jobs and did this as a hobby, so we think it could be a good change. We’ll also be taking a break on Twitter, Instagram, and Facebook, but the blog will stay public so you guys can access the archives whenever you’d like.
Our internal struggle and the state of this blog is entirely of our making, and we completely own that. Please don’t get mad at anyone for being honest with their feedback last week or accuse them of sending us packing. We have been struggling with that “something is off” feeling for a while now, and after way too much denial and “we’ll turn it around” pep talks, we finally asked for your feedback because we truly wanted to hear what you were thinking. It was cathartic and helpful for us. It has allowed us to very clearly see that if we have any respect for this blog and our love of it, and for you guys and what you’d like to see, we need to take a break if we ever want any hope of getting back to that fun/real/spontaneous place it used to be when this was something we did for the love instead of the high stakes game of supporting a family.
In summary: we love you, we thank you, and we hope you understand.
Erin Harris says
I Sherry and John, I just wanted to jump on and send some love. I actually only discovered you in July, so I don’t have much to say with regard to how the posts have changed, but I can say that I love everything about you guys, including your recent posts! I actually discovered your book at Target first, which led me to the website. It was perfect timing, because my husband and I were just getting ready to start re-decorating our poor-college-student apartment. We’ve been together for 6 years, living together for 4, and married for 1 1/2, so when I read the intro to your book, I felt like it was written for me! Also, I thought it was great that John was wearing the only pair of shoes my husband wears :) While I’d like to say a whole lot more, I’ll sum up with thank you for my nicely organized bookshelves, and beautifully framed wedding pics, and fun accent living room rug, and for telling me it’s ok if it doesn’t all get done at once. One of my priorities is to have a home I am happy to come home to; thank you for helping me make that more of a reality. I hope your time off helps you figure out how to make your home happy to come home to. I can imagine that to be rather difficult when your home is your job. While you can’t please everyone (haters gonna hate!) your fans will still be here, whatever changes you make. Enjoy the next month with the kids!
Sarah T says
What’s to say that hasn’t already been said? Just in case, let me reiterate that you and your family are appreciated, respected, and beloved by SO MANY of us! We will support you in whatever you decide is best for you and your family, but we truly hope that doesn’t mean giving up YHL forever! You are such a light, in such a dark world. Your wit, humor, positivity, and joy are the reason you have succeeded for so long and continue to have the readership that you do. If the content feels “off,” I hope you find whatever you need to be “on” again, but know that the YHL flair has always been the driving factor in MY love of you, and I don’t think that’s gone away for a single post :) Much love, Petersik fam!
Melissa says
So sad to read this but completely understand. I love your blog and look forward to your return(hopefully). Whatever decision you make I know it will be the one that’s right for your family.
SerineKat says
Guys, I totally understand. I do social media for a living and lately it’s been killing me. What you’ve done over the years is amazing. I found your stuff when I lived in England. You’ve inspired me. Thank you. Take five and find some inspiration again. We’ll be here.
Janani says
I have been reading your blog for 3 years now .This is my first comment. I have always loved ur blog, style of writing,sense of humor,honesty in each post. Love all the DIY stuff and personal posts. Will miss ur posts. Enjoy ur break!
Meghan c says
John and Sherry,
I just wanted to drop in and say like so many others have what a joy it has been to read your blog. I first started reading 4 years ago, when my husbands job packed us up with 4 days notice and sent us to jacksonville, not near any friends or family. Your site became something Constant I could count on when the hubs was working 22 hour days. I looked forward to your witty, genius, creative, technical and family posts. After moving to Miami, and then back to Atlanta, we have done a lot of projects in our house thanks to your guidance and ideas. We have a baby now and I try to implement some of your parenting style.
You guys are like the cool older siblings/best friend cousins that anyone would be lucky to have or know in person. I’m sure the negativity can be daunting and I don’t know how so many of you great bloggers can do it. So thanks for all your years, for all your openness and not really getting to keep anything private since so many people feel entitled to know everything about your life. I hope that you come back to blogging at some point, and you will have many friends waiting to greet you back. Until then, enjoy your family and thanks for all that you’ve been for me.
Fenny says
Hi. Long time reader here. Just a few things:
1. Every positive comment I am in complete agreement. I love your blog.
2. Take a break. You deserve it. But pleeeeease come back.
3. If you decide to not come back, I will forever be wondering about your blue dining room and your kitchen/bath renos. Feels like stopping a really, really good book half way through. Please post pics on Instagram or Twitter. :)
4. Enjoy your beautiful family. Do what feels right for you.
Waiting patiently (not) for your return,
Fenny
Renee says
Take your time, do what you need, but also consider not all of your posts have to be detailed and amazing, some of my favorites are quick updates, pics of your kids, most importantly you have a great sense of humor with quips and titles, no need for big stories to keep my interest in your blog. Yes, your houses look similar, but hey that’s your style and it’s beautiful!!! You are right, if it feels like a burden to write, don’t do it. Yes, it’s a job, but when you don’t feel like going to work everyday, or dread doing so then it’s time to change something, life’s too short for that. Advice to anyone…. If you dread a job, change it! Love you two right back, thanks for sharing your life with us!
Danielle says
Oh well..guess its time to get my own life…lol JK
I’m going to miss reading everyday, but I know the time off will blow by before we all know. Ive loved all of your posts. People change, and so do their circumstances. Change is good. I enjoyed taking the ride with you guys. Hope your time off is full of happiness, rest, and clarity. I look forward to your return. :)
Beka says
I really enjoy your blog! I have learned so much over the last year that I have been following. It really is my favorite decorating/DIY blog that I follow. I hope you will come back soon!
Catherine says
Been missing you two already! I can’t even believe the gall of some people being so rude to you guys. I hope that you can find a way to come back on your own terms and enjoy sharing things again! I completely understood and respect you for slowing down… Plus you were posting about a massive construction project that was nearly all DIY so, goodness, I know you were busy!
I hope your time off gives you some clarity and you figure out where you want to be.
Tiffany says
I really miss you guys. I cannot believe it has only been 5 days.
Richella Parham says
Dear John and Sherry,
I’ve read your blog for years, not because I needed it, but because I liked it. I’m in almost the opposite life situation–my kids are growing up and moving out of the nest. I live in a fairly new house and do DIY projects just because I want to do them, not because I need to DIY.
In short, I’m not your target demographic, but I’ve always loved your blog. Why? Because it’s the blog of two lovely people who are obviously working hard to do a great job. It’s fun and refreshing.
It sounds to me as if you’ve come to a place where the blog isn’t fun and refreshing for you to produce right now, and I think it’s a great idea to take an extended break. I applaud your wisdom and your courage. And besides, the material in your archives is enough to engage and inspire readers for a long time–if anyone has ever stored up enough goodwill to deserve a break, it’s you! Speaking selfishly, I hope that you’ll decide to come back to blogging when you’ve had a rest, for you are truly a bright spot in the blogging universe. But if you decide not to come back, I pray that decision will be full of goodness for you.
You guys are champs. I’m happy that you’ve had so much success, and I hope that continues beyond your wildest dreams. May God bless you and your beautiful family with everything you need.
Mindy says
I’ve been reading since almost the beginning. I got married 2 weeks after you, had my first baby a few weeks after Clara was born and just had my third a couple weeks after Teddy! It’s been really fun to watch your family grow along with mine and to be inspired by the stuff you’ve been able to do while in the same season of life as me–motivating for sure! Like others have said, even more than all the awesome house inspiration, I’ve so appreciated the dose of happy your blog brings every time I read. The internet can be so depressing, but I’ve always found your blog uplifting, even in posts like these! I appreciate how you keep it real! Selfishly, I hope you have an amazing break and come back for more, but no matter what, I just wanted to say thank you and I wish the very best for your lovely family and home!
Maureen M, Phx, AZ says
John and Sherry,
As I type this, my kitchen cabinets are coming down in the other room. What was the first thing I did as I made this decision? Checked out your kitchen with the open shelving and yelled at my husband to come in and “see” what I’ve been talking about all along. He says, “oh yah, ok. That looks good.” (DUH.) I hope this break is what you need to reassess your direction, but I just want you to know that I have always checked what you guys have done with design/style before I make any of my own decisions for my home. And I STILL AM. So, thank you! :)
Jody says
I cried when I saw you would be taking a break. I adore you all and reading your blog is often an inspirational highlight in my day.
That being said, 7years is a long time to have one job and I understand the need for a break.
You truly are an example of ‘do what you love and the rest will follow’.
My family has changed and grown as well and what I take from your blog has changed as well.
I have a signed copy of your first book and can’t wait to get a signed copy of your second. And third. If there is a third. I hope there is a third.
I hope you find what you need and will be checking back anxiously awaiting your return.
I’ve been reading your blog for so many years that I know I will stay with you no matter what direction you take in the future.
Abigail says
I discovered your website about three weeks back. I am in awe of how hard you both have worked. I was having a good time going through a couple of archive posts – which I found have really helped me look at my home in a new light – and all this content is for free?! I think people forget how much they get for nothing and minimise how much it costs you to do so. Yes, yes, I think the ‘older’ readers have valid points and those are worth thinking about but still… you put a lot of useful content out there and what one person dislikes another person loves. I hope you have a wonderful break and come back to blogging in the future. On a side note: I am amazed that you read all the comments yourselves and source house items personally without sponsors – that is really unique & special – if you can keep this up, Wow! Your authenticity makes you stand out from a sea of bloggers.
Yvette says
hugs, support, and encouragement <3
Una says
Here’s my opinion, for what it’s worth.
I’ve been enjoying your blog for a long time now. I think you are both talented, intelligent and incredibly hard working. These traits are what has taken you to where you are today. The simple facts are that you have grown and developed in the past number of years. You are not beginner DIYers. You are not a small time blog. While I might have had a hope of spray painting the odd piece of furniture, there is absolutely no way I will ever be able to build a door jamb. You now have an arsenal of tools and experience that surpasses most professionals.
Equally, your income has increased and you now live in a home that is no longer ordinary. This is good. This is normal. You deserve it. But you are no longer ‘everyday people’ and your blog can no longer be about a young broke couple trying to save money by doing the work on their house themselves.
To put it simply, you’ve outgrown your readership. If you were ever going to be successful that was inevitable. Nothing lasts forever, certainly not blogs. Congratulations. I wish you both all the best. I’m genuinely interested and excited to see what happens next.
Bethany Mihalik says
I’ve been reading for 4 years and was a daily reader until about 4 months ago. I’m very grateful for the ideas and inspiration from YHL, but I agree that the content has seemed very different the last 8-9 months. I know I’m a week late with feedback, but I wanted to leave some and I was trying to think about what has changed for me. The show house coverage especially was so out of touch with the budget/lifestyle I have, and that I felt like John & Sherry shared. I initially started reading because of the budget conscious, use-what-you-have, DIY aesthetic of the blog. I recognize and appreciate that styles evolve and lifestyles change, but recent posts have felt forced. For example, the door hanging post – it seemed like you chose to do the door jambs yourselves not to save money (you had to purchase a specialized tool for 2 doors) but to create blog content. I was a much happier reader as a fly on the wall as you did projects you wanted to rather than as a consumer of specially designed “new” content. I wish you the very best with your sabbatical and hope you re-enter the blogosphere with a renewed sense of inspiration and a clarified purpose.
jenny k says
Well stated with support for the bloggers!
TIFF says
I love you guys! Please don’t go away….you are inspiring. I look forward to your posts..
Maky says
I love you guys, truly. Regardless of the contents of this blog or the frequency with which you post.
Silly as this may sound (and as one-sided as this may be), I almost consider you far-away friends. And with friends, I just want them to be happy. Whether we stay in touch regularly or go for months without talking , the end result is the same.
I am thankful that you allowed me to be privy to parts of your lives for such a long time and whatever you choose to do next (be it more blog, less blog, no blog), I fully support you and wish you the very best. I’ll continue to be here, for as long as there is a ‘here’ :-)
Katie says
Wow…
And… I love you, too. :)
Ruth says
I am so sad!!! I love your blog, and the laundry series was incredible. I hope you come back, please please. Enjoy your break.
Amelia says
who should we be reading in the meantime?
Maddison says
I’m in withdrawl already :(
Sydni Jackson says
I’m glad you’re doing what’s best for you! I always thought it seemed like your lives were way too crazy busy, so I think it’s a good idea to shift focus and pare down to the things that are important. Hope you find the best next thing! <3
Kristie says
I have been reading your blog for years now (back when you were renovating your 1st house). I have never posted anything before today. I really enjoyed reading your blog for all these years. I check in usually a couple times a week. Please remember there are many many more people out there just like myself, silent followers who appreciate you but don’t post anything, good or bad. Forget about the negative comments. They are a minority. You will be missed!!!! Please come back soon!!!
Weezie says
I agree you need to take a break. Having your second child changes who you are as parents, as a couple and as people and you need to embrace it. The time with your two little ones goes by so fast..don’t sacrifice the sweetness of this limited time by agonizing over your job (the blog). Sooner or later, your life will become more routine and you will have the time, energy and desire to start blogging again.
I really enjoy your blog and look forward to reading it each time, despite the fact that I am all thumbs around tools and paint. You are an inspiration and I appreciate all the creativity and hard work that goes into your projects. Bravo as home renovators–but more kudos to your desire to be the best you can be.
Stephanie says
Thank you for years of inspiration and encouragement. Wish you guys nothing but the best!
Julie says
One of my friends turned me on to your blog about a year ago – we had just moved into an older house that we are making over by ourselves and I so enjoyed following all of your projects. You have much more energy than my husband and me.
Thank you for always being candid and honest – I totally agree with your decision to take a break. I look forward to checking back on your archives. :)
Diane says
I love your blog and have been following it for about 2 years. I totally don’t blame you for exploring new opportunities, and you should not apologize for being successful. It’s certainly understandable to need time to work stuff out. I do at time think that your projects have ventured into a realm that is difficult for those of us with 9-5 jobs to emulate but still find your ideas and enthusiasm to be an inspiration. I hope you come back soon!
Virginie says
Add my heart-shaped rock to your collection.
I have been an avid reader for more than five years and I feel like I owe you so much ! You’ve made me discover tons of other blogs I love (hey there Roo !), drool over the amazing rooms you’ve created (omg that blue paint in your last house’s guest room…..)… I still think about that updated ikea bookcase/changing table in Teddy’s room as one of the most amazing hacks – making me wonder why ikea didn’t design it the way you did to start with.
But more than being a wonderful gallery of great design, your blog has been for me a real big cheer of encouragement. Being a complete perfectionist, it’s helped me to realize I could do and make things myself without having to be paralyzed by the fear of messing up. I really do believe it led to some of the most precious moments I’ve spent with my boyfriend, building together the house we love, earning pride in our far-from-perfect achievements, and, most of all, overcoming my insecurities to trust him and US as a team.
Thank you for the love you’ve sent all of us, and the love you’ve made us feel for ourselves and each other.
You will alway be in our rock-shaped hearts :)
Now go and enjoy the wonders of the arriving autumn, crisp air and multicolored woods…
Have a wonderful adventure !
Kate says
Thank you for the joy you’ve brought me for the last 6 years. I just had to write in and officially thank you, John & Sherry for the years and years of inspiration. Good luck to whatever your future may hold. THANK YOU!!!
Alicia Ragus says
I applaud your honesty with this post. Seven wonderful years you have given and given of yourselves…you’d be aliens if you weren’t somewhat burnt out at this point, I think. When and if you decide to return I, and I’m sure many others, will be here to cheer on the change(s) that take place. We all grow and change, especially over the course of seven years, and I for one will always be grateful for the inspiration, laughs, adorable children photos and projects and wish you all nothing but the best and happiest : )
Kate Mac says
You two are a source of light! Such beautiful people, all the best with your discovering :)
Sharon says
Just wanted to let you know how much you both have inspired me since I retired 4 years ago from teaching. While I love your designs and DIY skills, you both have been able to guide me in the way you plan and organize from the beginning down to the designs. Your wisdom in how you spend your money and compare before buying is really one of my favorite parts. I did not get to read the first post where you ask for people’s comments. After reading this post, I didn’t have the heart to go back and read the first. I learned in life (and teaching) if you ask for people’s thoughts there will always be some who really have a very different and negative opinion. That is okay if done in a thoughtful way, however usually there are a number who mean to discourage us. The funny thing is that if you had their thoughts from the beginning, most of the time you would still do what you did in the beginning. Not always, for instances: I admired how you took the comments about the laundary room and really changed everything resulting in an awesome room. Sometimes, people have taken my breathe away with their rude comments. I always admired your grace and class in answering them kindly. I do not participate in any kind of social media and rarely comment here. I have noticed that right now many people need a place to vent. You both are too intelligent and talented to let that interfere in whatever you decide to do. As a young mother, I decided to not teach when the second one came along. In those days, we did not have blogs that you could share diverse ideas about all sorts of things. Mothers who stayed home were pretty isolated. When I retired I thought how wonderful this was for families who working or not could share different thoughts. I enjoy all the design ideas that people share. I may not use them, but it is so inspiring. It is sad that people don’t realize how fortunate they are to have such a wonderful opportunity as this blog offers. I for one have loved being a somewhat silent follower. I hope to have the opportunity to continue, but I do remember as another reader pointed out, the second child seems like a lot more responsibility than just the one child did. It was awesome and I enjoyed being with them, but it is time consuming. There were not opportunities that there are now such as you two have built with the various things you have done. Please continue to follow your wise and amazing ideas and don’t be sidelined by less than thoughtful comments. I was never sorry that I spent the time with my children. I went on to have an amazing career teaching. May God Bless Your Family and all your future endeavors.
AnnieO says
Frankly, it has been refreshing to see you guys build a business over the years whilst always maintaining a sense of humility, honesty and integrity. As for taking a break from the business of blogging, go for it! You have a very loyal readership who will still be here when you get back. And if additionally perspective is helpful, my husband works for a tech giant that gives paid 3 month sabbatical every 7 years because it’s an investment that leads to greater productivity, job satisfaction, and better work/life balance. I think it would be nice to see you guys take your time, get your equilibrium back and come back with fresh eyes and your own new rules. Good luck!
timothy says
i thought i would add to the 3000+ comments and just say that i love you guys. i am 14 and ive been reading since i was 12 so 2 years and i have enjoyed every single post. everything you guys do has inspired me alot. i bought your book, i came to see the showhouse, i try to rad every post and sometimes i even go back and catch up on the ones i miss. i think its a good idea for you guys to take a break bc maybe then in about a month you will realize how much you love and miss it which will set that spontaneous, fun spark you’re looking for :) i just wanted you guys to know that you have inspired me in every single way possible i have done alot of the projects from your book and i just love your blog and your family. i refer to you guys as john or sherry or the petersiks not younghouselove. my parents actually joke around with me sometimes that you guys are like my “second family” bc i talk about you so much haha. i cant wait to meet you all one day. that will be one of the best days of my life. i feel like your blog is so comforting and home-y and when i read i hear your voices speaking it instead of me just reading. lol. and now im probably scaring you and being creepy so ill stop XD but i really do love you guys and look forward to you coming back with a new liveliness and fun spark ! thanks for doing what you do :)
alba says
Two kids are hard to get use to. It;s good for your soul to it real! There is a time for everything in this life, enjoy your it the way it is now and please, don’t feel guilty. You chose what it’s right. love and see you when we see you!
timothy says
***tears
Kellee says
Just wanted to add to the long list of readers that will miss the updates!! I hope your break is refreshing and great. I hope to see you and your updates and posts soon!! This is my absolute, hands down, favorite blog in the history of EVER. Come back soon!!
Rachele says
I love y’all and your blog–all of it. Please come back.
I wish y’all nothing but the best.
Michelle says
I miss you already! I’ve been reading since before Clara was born and I really love you guys and love the blog.
Tara Floyd says
Glad u said don’t get mad… Geez I’ve been a reader of your blog from the beginning, hope u guys take a break and come back soon:( I feel you guys are so down to earth and I never think beyond that in re: are these posts lengthy enough,are they slacking, are they getting too commercialized. I think of u guys as the same as u ever have been. Just YHL.. John and Sherry& your growing beautiful family. Everyone has their opinions. But, just know I respect what u guys do. Adore u are family oriented and I just like what u guys do in general which is always to me being genuine. You seem like the best people and no I don’t know u personally, guess it’s just a vibe I feel. But, I had to stop reading some of the feedback as it was hard to read… Adore u guys… Come back soon!! And I’ll miss my daily and nightly posts:(
trish says
Just read this post! Tears in my eyes. I found your blog back in 2008 looking for paint colors for our first house (we are still here!) Went with Rockport Grey thanks to you. I call you “my friends from Virginia” My hubby and I met you in Ridgewood, NJ at your book signing. Since then we welcomed our first baby boy to our family. I understand your decision completely. Be happy and enjoy your sweet family. Take Care xoxo
Jennifer says
I am going to miss you and hope you come back. I am wishing all the best to you and your family and hope you can truly relax and enjoy each other. Thank you for all you have shared.
Christa M says
Sherry just dropped the mic…and walked away
D to the signer... says
Hi,
Love you guys- have read you since the beginning and watched you evolve over time. Honestly, it has been so long since I have read any blogs. Like you guys, I have had children, life changes, and priorities & interests have shifted. I am a designer who recently left a corporate job that was getting uninspiring and unoriginal. I have felt a shift with many other bloggers going “corporate” and losing touch with their passion for what they do. I don’t think it is just you guys, I think you are seeing a shift and a change in this entire world of the blog-a-sphere! I don’t think blogs are going away, but something will have to change.
I am in the same place in my life, trying to figure out whats next- whats going to drive me and inspire me. Take all the time you need, focus on your beautiful family, and say a little prayer that the signs will lead you to your next destination. Good luck and all the best!
Catherine says
I’m not really much of a commenter but just wanted to drop a line and hope you enjoy your time off for however long it takes! I actually found your blog during a very trying evening of “brand-new-mom-having-trouble-feeding” and Sherry’s BF post came up! Being that brand new mom, I don’t get a chance to check back every day so after a couple of weeks when I get a few minutes to myself, it’s like Christmas getting to see all the new posts! I’m kind of happy that I’m a newbie fan right now because I have seven years worth of archives to hopefully last me until you get back. Honestly, the amount of time, energy and effort you’ve given to this little space and passion of yours is amazing. I’ve never been able to do that because as soon as what I love doing starts to feel like a business, I just lose all steam because it becomes work. To be able to have done both what you love for play and work for as long as you have is something to be proud of so it’s understandable when it no longer feels like a healthy balance of both.
Enjoy your time and your family and everything that makes you guys you!!!