We’re excited to announce that the Petersik family is under construction again. Yup, someone’s gonna be a big sister… and she’s pretty darn excited about it.
The proverbial bun in Sherry’s oven is scheduled to arrive in April, and we’re both elated to be growing.
(I’ll happily put on some sympathy weight – it’s the least I can do)
Burger, on the other hand, has no idea what’s going on. But he’s generally excited about life, so that’s nice.
Sherry’s first trimester wasn’t without a few trials (a fender bender that had us worried for a bit and some pretty intense morning all-day sickness for the lady-wife to name a few) but we’re so grateful that all signs point to a healthy little bun so far. Given Clara’s birth complications, this pregnancy falls in the high risk category (more on that here and here), but we were excited to reach the safe-to-share milestone so we could spill the happy news to friends and family this weekend (conveniently while Nonna was in town). And now we get to share it with you guys!
Since you’re a curious bunch, we figured we’d answer your questions in a follow-up post on Friday like we did the first time we told the interwebs we were having a kid. So ask away, and we’ll answer as much as we can at the end of the week. Until then, I’m gonna get back to working on the sunroom and Sherry’s going to do her darndest to keep her breakfast down, probably while painting something.
Brooke says
Congratulations! So happy for you! :)
Jpet says
Your sweet family has a lot of ‘friends’ rooting for you! Congratulations and keep doing what your doing because I love it :)
Tirsa says
Yay! Congratulations you guys. So happy for you. Don’t let the naysayers ruin your day. Will be praying for a safe pregnancy and delivery. ((Hugs!))
Nitya says
Congratulations! Sending lots of good wishes and prayers your way!
Maddie @ Go Crafty says
Oh man, I’m totally excited for you guys and that is wonderful news. . .but is it strange that when I saw your subject title I got excited because I thought you were adding onto your house? Hahaha!
Oh well – Either expansion is great!!
Jen @ Domesticated Nomad says
Congratulations!
Jonelle says
I’m so happy for you guys!! Congrats on your new addition!
Katie says
So thrilled for you all; blessings on this new babe and your growing family! We had some extreme/terrifying complications with our first child (who is now healthy and happy) and I had to constantly remind myself with the next two babies (who were healthy and without complication) to enjoy every minute and not live in fear of what we had already gone through. Thanks for sharing when YOU were ready!
Katie says
ps. April babies are the best people EVER ;)
Kathleen says
Congratulations and all the very best “mojo” to the whole family. My prayers for a healthy, uneventful, i.e textbook pregnancy!
Krista says
Sooo happy for you guys! I’ll be praying for a healthy pregnacy, delivery and baby for you! Yeah!
Heather Pheasey says
Congratulations!!!
Stephanie Acker says
Haters gonna hate, trollers gonna troll…congratulations to your family on becoming one Petersik more awesome ;)
Shay says
Since there is already over 2000 comments I doubt I could come up with a very original question!
What do you think you’re looking forward to most with your second pregnancy compared to the first?
I’m so excited that another blogger I follow is expecting a little bun. (You’re #4!) I also look forward to hearing all about how well this pregnancy ends for you guys after the first go around with Clara. After my son was born I’m now considered high risk as well so I want to hear lots of happy stories about seconds beating the odds. /happy thoughts
Alex says
Yay! Congratulations to both of you! Clara will be an awesome big sister! So scary to be in any kind of car incident early on in the pregancy – we went through that with my first child right on the 12 week mark and it was the most awful couple of hours until we confirmed that everything was ok! So happy for you both!
And now the question that was probably already asked: 1) do you think Katie rubbed off pregnancy cooties on you? and 2) how exciting is it to be pregnant around the same time again? oh, and 3) scientifically speaking, would Burger be happier with another girl since he knows how to handle that or would he be game for a boy? ;-)
Keisha says
Went and read that other post’s comments. If I were you I wouldn’t have even let those posts go through. That person was obviously just a troll. If you let them post and get you riled up they will just keep doing it. Have to do what your parents always told you when your brother/sister was aggravating you… just ignore them and they will eventually give up and leave you alone. :)
YoungHouseLove says
Thanks Keisha! We’ve thought about not approving those stir-the-pot comments since they’re obviously just there to… stir the pot! But I think in the end we don’t want people to think that we only let happy comments full of love and praise through, so it’s nice to just let everything pop up. People definitely have some strong opinions about the choices we make, but at the end of the day it’s our house and our life, so we just have to do what works for us and everyone else can have their opinions. Just because they get approved doesn’t mean we can’t agree to disagree!
Update: After hearing this sentiment from so many of you guys today (both via comments and emails) we chatted over dinner and agree that you all have a good point. There’s definitely a difference between welcoming respectful and constructive disagreement and comments that are left solely to provoke others, be malicious, or distract from the purpose of this site. We’d never want people who come here for fun and encouragement (it’s only decorating!) to feel let down by any unnecessary drama, so we’re updating our comment policy. Thanks for your feedback!
xo,
s
Mandy says
So glad you’re updating your comment policy…
I didn’t read that when it happened, but just scrolled through it now.
I’ve been reading you every day since Clara was the bun in the oven (and went backwards through all the original posts because I loved you so much), but that made me feel like a bad reader because I would NEVER have noticed anything about that picture at all. Seriously.
No offense, but as much as I enjoy reading your blog, and think you guys are fabulous, I have things to do that don’t involve scrutinizing all your pictures for potential bumps or photoshopping… :)
Rachel D says
Yay for updating that comment policy!
You both deserve some peace and quiet, both on the blog and in life :)
Keep on keepin’ on!
Nicole says
First, congratulations! I’ve been reading for a year or two, but haven’t commented before. Just read Clara’s birth story, and it brought me to tears. I’ll be praying for a healthy and joyful pregnancy and a safe and peaceful delivery for you and your sweet baby. Hope you have much to smile about today!
Karen says
Congratulations!!!!! Beyond thrilled for your family. Thinking of you and best wishes during your pregnancy!
jeremy and cynthia says
Felicitatiions de France ou nous vous suivons depuis plusieurs annees,nous vous souhaitons plein de bonheur;congrats !!!!that’s fantastic
Rebecca says
Besides the congrats! on the addition of a second baby, I really wanted to comment that I love the separate pictures of the 5 of you! Hope you squeezed in a family picture!
Katie says
Congratulations Sherry, John and Clara!
This news is extra exciting to me as I have recently found out I am also expecting (my first). The news isn’t out yet… so I can relate to the stress of having people speculate.
My boyfriend teases me for referencing your blog often. He will say “This one time… on the blog…” I’m sure he will be hearing many more references now that I’ll be reading and following your family along on this new journey :) It is an exciting time!
One question… since Burger is a “barky dog”, do you have any tips for keeping the house quiet during baby nap times?
I have two very “barky dogs” of my own.
Congratulations again!
Shifra says
AAaaaaaaaaahhhh! Me too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
But I’m not due till May so not really telling that many people yet (the internet doesn’t really count, right?) Definitely get the morning sickness all day thing- I was sitting here feeling miserable, but this news made me smile, so thanks for that :)
Barbara says
Another question: So, when you threw your back out during the Oprah shoot…was that a euphemism for “morning sickness”?
Kelley says
LOL! I think it’s “empathy” weight… not “sympathy” … :) Congrats!
Dawn says
Totally left this comment on the wrong thread (wouldn’t have happened if I wasn’t so nosy…)- feel free to delete from the other one.
Yay! Many, many congratulations! Big sister is positively beaming – so cute.
JenC says
Congratulations! Thanks for sharing!
And by the way, I popped over to the comments where people were attacking you guys about sharing the pregnancy or not and the whole photoshopping of the belly. Unbelievable. I agree with so many of the positive posts. One in particular, about your blog is about your home and any personal information is a bonus. I absolutely agree.
I have been reading your blog for a few years now. I admire your sense of style, your approach to home design and decor, saving money on your home while making it look fab, DIY, and generally the way you guys present it all with humor and a whole lot of creativity. The personal stuff has just been a nice touch to further feeling like you guys are the best internet friends that I’ve never met! ;) (Well, I guess if you can count at your book signing? No, not the same. Not an internet stalker with a Billy Madison-esq hit list on my bedroom wall.)
I had a tough family situation a few years ago and reading YHL was what kept me in good spirits. My hubby & I are about the same age as you guys and bought our first place in 2010, a year before our family sitch. Checking YHL everyday reminded me that our life was just on pause and allowed me to live vicariously through you guys while we were away from home and dealing with a lot of tough stuff. So, thanks. And keep on keepin’ on the way you are! Ignore the haters. Congrats again! :)
Malissa says
First of all, CONGRATULATIONS!! I hope you were able to enjoy the last few weeks of having such an exciting secret. I know when I was pregnant those weeks felt long because I wanted to tell my family but intensely happy and fun to have this amazing news that only my husband and I were able to enjoy. Everyone should get to have that time!
I will ask a question also, for Friday. When you told John or when you told your family, did you do anything clever or just spill the beans (pun intended :)?
Sarah says
Super, super happy for you all! Clara is going to be a great big sister!
I hope all these positive comments put the negative nellies in perspective. You guys are awesome and so sweet for sharing your personal lives with us. Praying for a healthy, amazing pregnancy and birth.
Here’s to all the inspirational nursery, baby, 2 kids stuff that I know will be wonderful!
Anne says
How awesome! Congratulations!
Terry-Anne says
Congrats! Sherry I feel your morning sickness pain I had it all day my whole pregnancy both pregnancies. In the hopes of easing your mind a little, I had a very traumatic birth with my oldest and then a (very closely monitored) perfect birth with my second. I really hope everything goes well for you all. xoxo
Stacy says
Questions:
Will you find out the gender for planning/decorating/prepping Clara purposes?
How did you tell John or did you find out together?
How did you tell Clara and the rest of your family?
Not including the obvious answer of the nursery, has your pregnancy changed the thought process of what you will renovate in the house next? (meaning if you weren’t pregnant would you work on x instead of working on y because you’re pregnant)
Kristi says
Oh hooray!
Kim Davis says
It is weird that this news totally made my day?! So happy for you all – thank you so much for sharing the wonderful news!
Congratulations!!
Maggie says
My gyno told me that morning sickness is often caused by a Vit. B12 deficiency! I’m not prego but I am low in B12 (I don’t absorb it well) so my doc has me taking these http://www.seekinghealth.com/active-b12-lozenge.html They taste like cherry sweet tarts! Maybe get your levels checked. Sorry you feel crappy!
YoungHouseLove says
Thanks Maggie! I’ve tried the B12 and B6 thing but nothing has worked so far. Thanks for the tip though!
xo
s
Anonymous says
I’m taking the Seeking Health prenatals and my sickness was vastly reduced once I switched to them! I didn’t know they had lozenges, but I’ve been super-impressed with their prenatal vitamins, and they are new – they just debuted about 5 or 6 weeks ago. To me they are expensive but worth it!
YoungHouseLove says
Thanks so much!
xo
s
Katy M says
What I gotta know is. . . are you and Katie Bower due around the same time? :) Because that would be awesome!
CONGRATS! I love hearing about your family, your Clara birth story (scary but beautiful), and all your other parenting/family posts (we cloth diaper too and your post on that was a HUGE help!).
Thank you for sharing! Hoping for a safe and healthy pregnancy for you and the new Bean.
Anonymous says
OH RIGHT! Katie is pregnant too! How wonderful!
Christine says
So happy for you two!
rebecca smith says
CONGRATULATIONS, I am very excited to hear about your new baby, and very much looking forward to any baby posts! Sorry to see the nasty comments on that previous post you linked, please don’t let them get to you as there are so many more of us who love you and don’t scrutinise every photo for belly roundness etc!! Hope your pregnancy goes well Sherry. x
Jessica says
CONGRATS!! So excited for you guys!
Hope says
Congratulations!! Wishing only the best and for a happy and healthy pregnancy and delivery! X
katie says
Spectacular news. So happy for everyone!
Lea says
Congrats!
Question: will you keep pregnant posts to YHLife?
Signed,
Just getting over giving up on getting pregnant, and there’s sperm in the blogiverse water or something
Lindsay says
Congratulations!!
Laura says
Very excited for your family! As a mother of two (boys 3&2), I understand your excitement and joy!
Many blessings
Jill says
I’m not usually a commenter, but today I am making an exception. Congratulations! I’m so happy for your family! And as a side note, I’ve never really delved into the comment section until today (as I was trying to comment myself) and all I can say is WOW…what I found was shocking. I had no idea the criticism that came your way in the comment section. Be strong Petersiks, be strong :) I hope you know that there are normal readers out there that come to this blog for the home improvement aspect and not to participate in a critique forum of your body shape, photoshop abilities, calories/fat grams/sodium content of your meal choices, number of hours slept, etc. I honestly am blown away at the “take away” that some get from your posts. I am so happy for your exciting news and wish you the best against all the naysayers out there…I wish that aspect didn’t exist for you. Anyway, please add my voice to those out there cheering for your success!! Hurrah! :)
Patricia says
couldn’t agree more. The comment last week re: your dinner selection was so odd! Who knew you’d have to defend your homemade meal?? The nerve of some people. I’m thinking the McD’s I fed my kids after soccer practice last night would really get that person’s feathers in a ruffle!! Oh well.
HK says
SO HAPPY FOR YOU GUYS!!!!!! Congratulations!
Sarah says
Congratulations. I am so very happy for all of you!!!!
Susan says
Congratulations! :) That’s terrific news. :)
Courtney says
Greatest news I’ve heard all day! Congrats you guys!
Anonymous says
Yay for you! And you have my best wishes for a much smoother delivery this time.
I’m due April 27th, but I’m several years older than you and am waiting until I get my CVS results to announce. CVS is next week. It is SO hard to keep it under wraps, but luckily I haven’t had much sickness (no vomiting, anyway) and I’m not really showing. Kudos to you for keeping it private so long, and THANK YOU for sharing with us!
Kate W. says
Congrats guys!! Clara is going to be an excellent big sister! How did you break the news to John and Clara? And WHERE did you get that fabric??? I adore it!
Jessica says
Congratulations! I wish you an easy and safe rest-of-pregnancy.